Warning, friend! Don’t Give Suggestions on How to Arrange My Flowers.

One sure way to lose another woman’s friendship is to try to improve her flower arrangements.

Marcelene Cox

Amen, Marcelene, wherever you are.

I have noticed that some flower lovers are highly competitive about our flowers in both growing them and how we arrange them in vases or, in my case, in photo compositions.  I arranged these lilies, poppies, and alstroemeria on a lightbox so I could photograph them.

alstroemeria, poppies, and lilies
How to End a Friendship

Both flower arrangements in a vase or in photography are a skill and take practice. But, more often, they are more of an art than a skill.  Some of us think we are good at it and, maybe, we are, but it is also equally possible that we are not on a particular day.

But, friends of “us”, listen up.

It does not matter whether on a particular day we are good or bad. Unless we ask for suggestions, don’t give any. 

If you value your life, that is. Or, at the very least, the friendship.